Many women have no idea on how to attract the guy they like and to keep them, some may even find it difficult to start a conversation.
Are you one of them? If you are, fret not.
Here's some tips for you to make that guy develop feelings for you.
Do you know that most men confuse sex with love? - Many women think that showing their sexy stuff and getting the guy into bed with them will allow the guy to develop feelings for them.
In bed, they will try to sweet talk and promise you stuffs.
But all that they say won't come true at all, because to the men, it only means "thanks for the great night, see you".
All the promises he made will be all forgotten.
So, you have to hold off the quick trip to the bedroom.
- Knowing the fact that guys confuse sex with love, you should try not to arouse his sexual interest but his curiosity (He has for you).
- Think of a way that will make him want to know you better.
- Have fun and be fun when you are out on a date with him.
- Let the conversations flow smoothly.
Keep it light and cool.
- Don't be afraid to crack a joke here and there that will keep you two laughing.
( Laughing helps to ease the tensions between both, so that you two will feel comfortable with each other.
) - Be observant because things around you and things that he wears or does can easily lead to a topic where both of you can be on.
- Don't always focus the topic on yourself, although you want him to know more about you, but you don't want to bore him out or let out too much information about yourself.
- If you are aware of yourself being too chatty, look out for signs that he may feel "bored".
Like if his gazes at other directions, or if he's trying to interject a word here and there.
Be conscious of his interest level.
You have to learn to hold back your emotions.
Most women do not know how to hold back their emotions and start hinting or even upfront confessing her feelings to the guy.
Some even become over touchy and possessive.
This will scare the guy out and make him feel pressured.
Soon, he will start avoiding you.
To avoid this, do not confess to the extent where you want him to return the love.
Guys are normally slow with accepting or realizing his love or feelings.
So, give him time and space.
Don't bug him for an answer.
Whatever it is, do not be too rush or pressurizing as it will only make him run from you.
You don't want that to happen, do you? So just have fun through the process!