So you've decided to save your marriage alone.
You believe it's worth saving despite all the pain, tears, rejection and sleepless nights.
Well, don't be mistaken -- it's going to be tough.
Not having your husband's or wife's buy-in and looking to save your marriage alone will drain you.
Remain focused on these next five steps to succeed...
1.
Figure out what the problems are Do your own brainstorm.
What are the issues, what do you fight about, what's tearing you apart? 2.
Do what you can on your part Once you have a handle on the issues, suck in your pride and do what you can on your part.
For example, if it's constant quarreling, be more accommodating.
If you are drifting apart, take an interest in his hobbies.
3.
Show your spouse what you've done Even though your husband or wife may not express an interest in making things better, the very fact that you are trying will move them.
So be prepared to show them openly what you're doing even if you face initial rejection.
4.
Get support The toughest part about rescuing your marriage alone is going to be keeping your spirits up.
Get support from close friends or relatives.
Share with them what you're doing and get them to cheer you on.
5.
Learn how to make things better and move them forward Don't depend on what you know or your instincts.
To save your marriage alone and do it well, do research, read books and marriage help websites to learn fresh new ways to get your marriage to work.