This is like one of the biggest and most stressful issues with young people while growing up.
Like many others, I tend to go for someone who I can't get.
The feeling of a challenge creates a fire inside me, and I'll become a hunter searching for my prey.
If I can't catch my prey, I go hungry, for days to weeks at time.
Relationships, or some say just friends can do that to you.
Lately, I've been hungover this one girl.
It's important to analyze every aspect of this relationship between me and her.
Lets say her name is Rosie.
Rosie is beautiful girl in her 20's whom shares many of the same interests as me, including soccer, tennis, going to the beach, and going out at night.
Not only that, we tend to tease each other constantly with just little, subtle hints throughout the day.
It comes down to a fine line where we tease each other a lot but nothing ever happens.
Your probably wondering why.
It sounds like this is a clear cut case, that she likes me, and I like her.
Typically, I would say the same.
We practically go out together every day for dinner, hang out when ever the two of us is free.
But then why are we not moving past that fine line between just friends and more than friends.
Why's it ha just stop at friends? She has a boyfriend, whom lives far away, approximately 1000 miles in a different state and this causes extreme confusion between where her alliances lie.
I understand that shes having a difficult time.
She's dated this other guy for 2 years, and has just met me for at most a month.
This difference is not the only thing that's stopping her from just breaking up with her boyfriend.
She seems to be one of those very subtle, prude girls who won't make the first move unless aggressive behavior takes places.
The thing is, aggressive behavior is risky, and can turn against you if your not careful.
Perhaps this whole situation is being over analyzed and that if she truly does like me, she would break up with her boyfriend eventually.
My approach to this scenario is taking a slow calm approach.
Let's see where this takes me.
One thing I truly wish to do is to fall in the friend zone.
I know I'm not there, at least not yet, but if nothing happens again in the next few weeks, it's time to move on.