- 1). Seek professional assistance if you are having trouble meeting the child's needs. If you have difficulty providing food, shelter, and clothing for the child, or if you are feeling overwhelmed by the responsibilities of parenting, contact a social service agency or community outreach group. These organizations will help you find the support you need to provide for your child.
- 2). Show that you have a healthy relationship with the child. When deciding whether the current guardian should maintain custody, the court will look at the custodian's relationship with the child. The court may ask a social worker to visit your house to assess whether you and the child have a strong bond and positive rapport.
- 3). Display an understanding of the child's physical, emotional, and educational needs. Even if you are having difficulties managing the child's behavior or meeting special educational needs, show the court that you understand the dynamics at play in your family. If necessary, present the judge with a plan on how you intend to help the child through therapy, tutoring, or other intervention services.
- 4). Prove that you can provide a stable home environment. Be prepared to show a county social worker that your home is safe and clean, and that it has adequate space in which the child eats, bathes, and sleeps. Verify that you have working smoke detectors outside each bedroom and locks on all windows and doors, and be sure to show that any chemicals are stored in locked cabinets.
- 5). Provide witnesses and evidence to support your assertions. Ask the child's teacher, social worker, case manager, or therapist to attend court and back up your claim that the child should remain in your home. Produce pay stubs, itemized budgets, and other documentation outlining your monthly income and expenses to show the court that you can provide for the child financially.