Your friends will tell you of methods, that newspaper column will tell methods, the Internet is full of methods, etc...
So "which way is the best way to get my ex back?" you are asking at the moment.
Let's look at the most common methods written everywhere:
- "A Good Apology"-based: Those aren't really methods, because if you have come to the stage of seeking advice to get an ex back, you have probably exhausted all the apology credits you have and the next apology you make, however "excellent" it is, will lead you to absolutely nowhere.
Also, this doesn't utilize the "curiosity" and "inaccessibility" methods that are psychologically proven to be very effective. - "Gifts He or She Likes"-based: This method means you have to shower your ex girlfriend or boyfriend with gifts he or she would like.
This applies mostly to men, who are suggested that they should be showering their girlfriends with flowers and chocolate.
It won't work - breakup decisions are final in the decision maker's minds and thus you probably can't sway them to get them back.
More, your ex is probably already fed up with you and those will only push him or her farther away. - "Curiosity meets Inaccessibility"-based: This is by far the best way to get your ex back.
Basically, you are denying your ex the things you would like him or her to want.
Deny yourself - say that you agree with the breakup.
This makes you suddenly inaccessible.
Deny information - say that something happened to you that made you agree with the breakup, but don't say what that thing is.
It will make him or her so curious that he or she will be dying to hear what happened to you.
Of course, you are always going to evade the question.