Being dumped is no girl's favorite experience by a long shot, but it just so happens that being dumped is a part of finding love. Sometimes you have to do the dumping yourself and so it is only fair in the game of love that every so often it might be you who will be dumped!

Even the most beautiful and seductive of women get dumped so do not take it too much to heart. It has happened to those stunning girls on the covers of glossy magazines and it has happened to gorgeous movie stars alike. Look at Jennifer Anniston for example. Beautiful, successful, charming – dumped! At least you can take comfort in the fact that your pain will likely not be splashed across every tabloid in the country!

Knowing Why?

Is there really any comfort in knowing why? You can analyze every tiny detail till you turn yourself sick from it. You can check your phone a thousand times willing it to ring, but most probably it won't.

You can ask yourself ‘what did I do wrong?' and yet even if there was something you did wrong, is it not perhaps more that you did it to the wrong person? In my experience what is wrong to one person is endearing to another and therefore there are really no right or wrongs only mis-matches.

Top 5 Reasons You Got Dumped!

1.    You are great and he is afraid of commitment so has headed for the hills before you snag him completely!

2.    He has been playing the field. This especially happens a lot with internet dating and he has found someone else more to his liking. Better than him two-timing you wouldn't you say?

3.    He wants you to chase him! Sad but true, some guys just want that and I don't recommend you become a chaser. He will play you and dump you when he gets bored anyway. You are well shot of this one.

4.    His ex-girlfriend just turned up! Can't beat that one. If there is a past love he was and would never have been yours anyway.

5.    He's just not that into you! To quote an all too famous saying these days, but it is true. Even if he appeared to be totally falling for you, if he was really into you and was worthy of your love he would cross a million miles infested with the most terrible and fierce monsters just to be with you!

It is done, move on. Glorious days are ahead of you and remember that every door that closes another one opens somewhere. The love of a true heart will always find its home. Remember a time when you were loved, a time when you felt full and content and let those feelings engulf you. This is just a trivial pit stop along your lifes journey. Think about it – you don't recall every single stop you make for gas when you take a long road trip do you? Of course not! You fuel up and move on, so happy travels.