A lot of women fall in and out of love pretty easily which leads a lot of people to ask if these women are doing something wrong.
Don't they know how to keep him? Most of these relationships follow the same pattern that starts out great but loses its spark as soon as conversations begin about having a deeper relationship.
It might be easy to blame men for these things but not all men are the same.
This means there are different ways on how to keep him.
While there are bad men out there, there are also great men out there.
You may have even been with him but you didn't know how to keep him and the relationship ended before you got a chance to really get it started.
Don't try to correct every mistake your man makes.
This will make him think there's something wrong with him and he will start putting distance between the two of you.
If you've made this mistake, you've probably also made the mistake of trying twice as hard to get him back.
Maybe you doubled your efforts of criticism.
Remember that he isn't withdrawing because he has lost love for you.
He is withdrawing because you have compounded his negative feelings and made him insecure.
In order to learn how to keep him and stop him from backing away, you need to get inside his mind to learn how he works.
When you know how his mind works, you can learn how to interact with him.
Don't make him give up hobbies and other things he loved before he met you.
When he has to choose between you and his friends, you won't want to know the answer.
It's easier to bring him closer than it is to push him away.
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