Men should take a note out of the woman's playbook now and then.
When you need a confidence boost, look and see what the other side does.
It may surprise you just how much it helps.
It's good to do this as well because when you're confidence gets boosted, your success on the dating playing field boosts too.
Of course, when that happens your confidence gets shot up even more, and the skyward reaching cycle continues.
Dress the part - I don't mean to stereotype, but I can positively say that all of my female friends feel better after an afternoon of shoe shopping.
Why? First, it gets them out and doing something.
Second, the very act of acquiring something pretty and new feels good.
Third, by dressing up in something new, one starts to get the feeling of being new themselves.
No, don't go buying shoes if that's not your thing, but try to boost your dating confidence by going out and picking up something new for your wardrobe, and ride the power trip this gives you as far as you can.
Stop comparing - Comparing yourself to celebrities and even friends is ridiculous and a surefire way to get yourself down.
Is he better looking, is he smoother, does he get more dates? Who cares! Focus on you, not them.
When you start comparing there is no way to come out of it unscathed.
Even if you feel you win the comparing contest, you'll only end up with an ego problem.
Do something new - Something new can be a lot of things.
The best bet for a confidence booster though is to join a club, go out with a rarely seen circle of friends, or other things like that.
Along with having that great feeling from doing something new, but you get a whole other group of people showing interest in you, and what can boost your dating confidence more than that? What do you do to boost your dating confidence? Do shoes actually do the trick, or do you have something else up your sleeve? Add a comment below and let us know, and help start a conversation!
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