There is a feeling of rejection that comes from getting dumped by a girlfriend that really can take the wind out of your sails.
It's one thing to get rejected by a woman you've just met and who doesn't know you, it's another thing to get rejected by a woman you have been dating and you have developed strong feelings for.
For a lot of guys, this is the hard part.
Getting over that feeling that she felt like she did not want to be with you anymore can be really hard.
It's also something that you MUST be able to get over if you are going to win her back.
If you don't you are going to find that there are insecurities that end up getting in the way of doing what you have to do and that is to actually come across appealing enough that she decides that she wants to get back with you.
A lot of men will try to just proceed with trying to win back their ex girlfriend without dealing with those feelings of being rejected by her and by doing that, they end up making it harder on themselves than they have to be.
So, here are some tips that can help you to get over that feeling of being rejected by her: 1.
Even though she may have dumped you, at one point she must have accepted you, so focus on that.
You can focus on the fact that she ended the relationship, and that is what most men end up doing.
Or, you can focus on the fact that she DID like you enough to be in a relationship with you and if you do that, you are more likely to end up having that edge that you need to win her back.
2.
Look at the things that might have changed her feelings about you and see if you can change them.
A break up can be a good opportunity to look at what you can do differently so that the next time you are with her or any other woman, you'll be a better boyfriend.
Most guys don't think about it this way and so, they don't really grow into becoming a better man.
When you can allow yourself to take a situation like a break up and use it to turn yourself around - you can end up becoming the kind of guy who can easily win back your ex girlfriend.