There comes a time in a relationship when you find that things are not going as planned and you find that your guy is slipping away and becoming very distant.
This could be because he is not satisfied and happy with the circumstances that surround him.
Read these points and find out if you are doing something that's causing him to back away.
You are not giving your all Just as it takes two hands to clap, it needs both partners to give their all into the relationship.
If you have not been pulling your weight and have been expecting him to do all the giving, then not only have you been proved selfish and materialistic but you don't really love him and he has sensed this.
This is keeping him silent! You always have to have the last word! Don't be exasperating and try to have your way.
A woman who has to have the last word shows that she is brash and too assuming.
He could have felt ignored and insulted by the way you keep on brushing aside his comments and insisting that you are right.
You scheme, plot and control! You have got to admit that you have done something to put him off.
Check up on your behavior.
Have you been too controlling and scheming? If you are never satisfied until you have things done your way and sulk and have moods when it doesn't, then he is fed up with you and wants to break off! This is why he has stopped calling.
You seem to have changed a lot The worst thing you can do to jeopardize the relationship is change for the worse! He has fallen in love with you because of a number of factors that thrilled and excited him.
If those factors no longer exist after a while, he could start losing interest and want to stop seeing you.
You are not that exciting anymore You cannot afford to let your relationship become predictable and boring in any way.
Look and dress in such a manner that he is always thrilled to be with you and he does not have to look for excitement elsewhere.
If you have grown lazy and unattractive, he could stop calling you.
You lie and cheat behind his back Lying and cheating is something no man or woman will tolerate for long! Even if he still cares, he can only take so much! Don't bank on him forgiving you time and time again.
The fact that you are cheating on him tells him that your feelings for him are not true.
It is no wonder that he does not call you anymore.
You refuse to give him his space Every man (or woman for that matter) needs his space! It is important to let him know that you love him and trust him enough to let him have his much needed space and freedom at times.
This is one of the most common reasons why men are put off when they realize that their woman wants to snap on the ball and chain!
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