When you've been together a long time breakups are miserable and you need a plan to get your ex back starting today! It's miserable to be told goodbye by someone you love and feel like that's the end of everything you had together.
You think that you'd do anything to get your ex back, but are unsure and scared of how to go about it.
Having a plan of action to take can help give you the confidence you need to get started.
Even though these steps may appear too simple or obvious, they really can change things around for the better.
These ideas will get your ex to notice you and realize that you aren't moping around at home waiting for them to call.
1.
Go out with friends and have fun Get out on the town for a night or two of fun.
This is good for you to loosen up and enjoy things again.
People may very well mention to your ex that you're taking the breakup pretty well.
2.
Keep up your appearance.
When you take care of yourself, you will appear attractive and appealing.
Much more so than looking like you don't care what you look like, after all how would you feel if you bumped into your ex? 3.
Get some exercise.
Again, you will look and feel better.
Working out is good therapy when you are under stress and the mental pain of the breakup.
Healing is part of changing for the better.
You will want to show your ex that you are different - and better! 4.
Stay away from your ex.
A month, at least, of no contact at all, if possible.
This step is really important in getting your ex to come back to you.
It allows both of you time to have a cooling down period and help your ex get over the bad feelings.
5.
An apology works wonders.
By apologizing to your ex they will feel like no matter what you are on their side.
Of course, you have to mean it and come across that way or your ex won't buy it.
The point isn't who was right and who was wrong, but that you are willing to admit that you aren't perfect.
They will feel like you understand them and are willing to support them even during what you two are going through.
6.
A new hobby can distract your mind from your ex for awhile.
You need a break mentally so you can rest your mind enough to think things through.
Distracting yourself by learning and doing something new is a great way to get this needed break.
7.
Plan! This is key to actually getting your ex back.
You don't want to appear like you are waffling back and forth and don't know your own mind.
Taking the right steps will make you appear decisive and sure of yourself.
Having a plan what to do next will help you stick with it if you don't see the results you want right away.
There's more ways than this to get your ex to come back to you, even to get them to chase you! For them to work you've got to put yourself in the right mindset and know you're going to succeed.