I want my ex back...
don't we all? My question to you is why? Is it because: a) Your ex is hot and it would be hard to find someone else that looks as good? b) Your ex really take good care of you and you will not get that care from someone else? c) You were very comfortable with your ex and shy away from starting from scratch with someone else? d) You were not in love with your ex but sure love the way he/ she loved you It is so easy to assume that because someone is moaning away about how much they want to get back with their ex, it is because they were so much in love.
I beg to differ.
There could be many other reasons other than those above that would fit that category also.
So saying I want my ex back does nothing for you unless you can honestly answer the question why? This question seems so innocent at first until you realize that you have to be honest with yourself.
This sometimes proves to be the hardest thing for some of us to do.
If you want your ex back for all the wrong reasons then you are doomed to be in this same position sometime again in the future.
If you were there for the wrong reasons then that same reason becomes the right reason to break up.
Being there for the wrong reason translates into actions, words and intentions.
Maybe that is why your ex broke u with you.
It was soon obvious to them that something was not right.
If you have been honest with yourself and realised that you were there for the right reasons then you have the game half won.