One of the biggest concerns for couples undergoing divorce is the impact it might have on their children. Such concern is justified because these children have never experienced what living with one parent may be like. They might not truly understand why divorce was necessary, but most importantly, most children of divorce don't understand that separation will lead to a healthier and happier for them and their parents. Bottom line is that divorce brings with it a massive change that they may not be able to process and come to terms with alone.

Fortunately, there are things you can do to help them through the process.

Understanding the Impact on Your Kids

According to a study by North Carolina State University, a child's perception and ability to cope with divorce will be largely determined by age and gender, as well as the child's history of stress. Ultimately, even the most stable and resilient of kids could develop emotional problems if they don't receive guidance during and after divorce.

These risk factors, however, are not inevitable. Can their lived be negatively impacted? Yes. But as parents, you can get help to ensure that your kids embrace this new chapter in their life, and that of yours.  

Co-Parent Consultations Might be Your Kids' Best Chance to Cope

There's no denying that parenting through divorce is challenging. Simple tasks, such as communicating cordially, can become impossible. However, you must understand that disputes and issues between you and your partner can be the single most defining aspect contributing to your child's negative psychological wellbeing.

So, how do you overcome this brick wall that's standing firm between you and your partner, and restricting your child's healthy development? Co-parenting consultation is the answer.

Experts on post divorce family matters act as a neutral third party to help resolve any problems caused by either of the parents. They encourage sharing thoughts, questions, and concerns by getting all parties to work together for the betterment of their children.

The focus is to make sure that you and your child have a caring and understanding platform where their and your thoughts are addressed. You'll also be encouraged to communicate with your ex partner in an objective manner, without having to deal with any conflicts.

Parenting plan consultations, individual therapy sessions, family therapy and courses on parenting through divorce offered by certified and experienced divorce specialists can help parents learn how to minimize the adverse effects of a divorce on their kids.

Take a stand for your child.

About Triangle Parenting Solutions

Triangle Parenting Solutions is run by Jennifer Viemont. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and a member of the National Association of Social Workers and the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts. She has worked with families and children in numerous different mental health settings since the year 1996. She offers a range of different programs, including the ones that assist divorced parents in making smooth divorce transitions and solving co-parenting issues. She utilizes her well developed skills to help families flourish and grow through the hardest times. Triangle Parenting Solutions currently serves in North Raleigh, Wake Forest, RTP, and Chapel Hill.

Phone: 919-539-4840

Email: jennifer@triangleparentingsolutions.com