Question: I have heard that feng shui has many tips to help me find love. To tell you the truth, I am skeptical, but still willing to give it a try. Can feng shui really help me find my soulmate?

Answer: Yes, feng shui can certainly help you find love, find your soulmate. The important thing to understand, though, is that a feng shui consultant is not walking into your space with a magic wand and a clear timeline for the expected results.

As with everything, you are the one who has to make it happen - and feng shui is a very powerful tool to speed up your love search. From my experience with feng shui clients looking for a love partner, a big factor in how quickly you will find love depends on clarifying 2 steps:

1. How Clear You Are With What You Want. If you have clarity as to what is it that you want in a life partner, you are more likely to attract that partner into your life. Meaning, when you know what you are looking for, you will sure find it much easier because you can see it!

A vague energy attract vague results, so clarify what is it that you really want. To attract a fresh, clear energy into your life and clarify your vision, use feng shui to clear out your closets (inner energy), clutter clear your whole home (outer energy), and regularly check the flow of Chi in your main entry.

Read: Bring Clarity: Clutter Clear Your Home

2. How Open and Ready You Are To Accept Love in Your Life. Sometimes we resist what we want the most.

There are many reasons for it, but feng shui-wise, you can easily see the proof of your resistance just by checking the energy flow in your home.

Is your front door blocked? Is your bedroom energy low and the bed inaccessible? Is your bathroom telling a sad story and the kitchen overwhelms with a lonely feng shui energy? Pay attention to the language of your environment, as it is a mirror of your own energy; change your environment and you will see inner shifts happening, too.

Read: Tips To Find Out if You Are Ready for Love

Of course, the main thing is to know and accept yourself, as will help you understand what works for you. Being honest with yourself and committed to your happiness is a powerful way to attract honest, committed people into your life.

Taking care of yourself and your personal energy is also of paramount importance. Let me ask you this: "If the man or the woman of your dreams were to walk into your home today, what message will your home - and particularly your bedroom - be sending?"

Knowing that everything in your home speaks about you/your energy can be powerful and transformational, use this knowledge wisely.

Last, but not least, if you are pragmatic about using feng shui for love, most likely feng shui will not work so well for you. If you are ready to give feng shui a try, do it with an open heart and total commitment. The clients who achieved the most beautiful results believed in feng shui as an energy tool and applied the love tips diligently and with a clear intent.

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